I walk into the house and on the floor is a huge pile of toys and books. The kitchen counters are clutters with dishes and rags. My daughter’s room off to the right has a bed unmade, thousands of toys on the floor and clothes everywhere. I see my husband in the kitchen cooking dinner and my baby in the high chair playing with some toys. My daughter isn’t far away, sitting in our living room watching Curious George. However, this isn’t my life, not even close. I’m single with no children. I’ve never been in a long term relationship and at this stage in my life have little hope…